Saturday, January 9, 2010

NOT by the book!

While we were preparing for our adoptions we attended many classes and read many books on what to expect when adopting. We read books on attachment, adjustment, bonding, older child adoption, etc. We were told that bringing home an older child would come along with many issues we did not have with Micah. We spent months preparing for grieving, tantrums, crying, night terrors, etc. I thought we were prepared for anything.....but what we were not prepared for was for everything to go GREAT. Sitota has been doing so well. She smiles all the time, loves playing with Micah and all the other kiddos, did wonderful at the doctor and dentist, had a good time visiting her school and meeting her teacher. She gives us hugs and kisses and runs to us every morning with a HUGE smile on her face. She is eating well, but not over eating or hoarding. We are so truly blessed...everyday we see her grow more and more comfortable with us. I am not saying we will not have any "issues", but our first week home has been very joyful and for that we are blessed!!!!! Here are a few pics of the kids at grandmas and at home! Melissa

5 comments:

milreb said...

What a sweetie! So glad week 1 has been good.

Unknown said...

nice family and a great grandma ha ha

Karen & Brad Hernke said...

It is soooo awesome to see you all as a family...just melts my heart!!

Love you,
Karen

Bob said...
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Kimberly and Bob said...

Congrats.

I hear that Sitota was quite the big sister and helper to all the younger kids at the care center. I have to wonder if she helped with my son's care for the 4 months he was there. I have wondered if my son responds so well to his big sister becuase of Sitota.